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Besides, so much luck was involved in my finding my match that there are probably more alternate universes where I'm still living solo than where I'm married.

I realize that my past experiences have made me who I am today, but I still wish I could go back in time and have a sisterly chat with poor, clueless, "younger me" about relationships.

Now, before you get all up in her face about her controversial title, let's get something straight here…"There's a big difference between compromising and settling," Gottlieb told me over the phone.

"I don't want the takeaway to be, pick the next guy off of and marry him.

They'll make you laugh, cry and maybe feel a little sorry for yourself.

"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.

If she literally can't keep his name out of her mouth for a couple of hours, it makes me feel like she's clearly not over past issues.

RELATED: Sarah Jakes On The Moment She Knew Pastor Touré Roberts Was Her Soul Mate While some women may balk at Harvey’s no-holds-barred advice, he did tell single women what they could do to improve their chance at love. You have the ability to attract a man, and you already know how to do that,” he said, explaining women shouldn’t be actively on the prowl for a man.

On the other hand, Harvey cautioned women against being too easily impressed with minimal action or attention from a man either.

In fact, I'd been going about being single all wrong.

These guys are all around you but you're not giving them a chance. We feel entitled.*Gottlieb: "Women try to be good friends to each other. He said, what you think of as quirky, endearing, and cute, is really annoying to someone else. You find something great, but you wonder if there's something better out there, so you keep searching.

But he would love you so much that he would overlook that. In the end, after three more weeks of searching for the perfect sweater—was it so much better than the one you could have bought originally? Gottlieb: "The guys I interviewed for the book said women judge them so much.